10 Jan Masturbation is a healthy expression of sexuality for anybody, regardless of whether they're in a relationship or not. Not all sexual pleasure can be derived from contact with other humans, and seeking it from yourself isn't cheating. It's natural, and it's nothing you have to hide from your partner. - Stuff. 19 Jan When I say “using” I mean intentionally taking porn in through one's senses with the intention of being turned on and then, most likely, masturbating or at least getting sexually aroused. By “cheating” I mean that using porn is breaking a vow —either implicitly or explicitly—made to one's spouse. This is. 4 Mar Choosing to masturbate doesn't indicate that your S.O. is doing a bad job of keeping you sexually satisfied, nor that your interest in the relationship is waning. Like I said before, it's like scratching a different kind of itch. If a person finds this offensive to the point of considering it actual cheating, they probably.